When?

I was talking with my aunt Jing this morning regarding everything,everything under the sun,we never really had a chance to talk personally before i left Zamboanga City,usually our topic are so limited,from how are you?hows work and you takecare over there and we miss you,until recently,she started talking to me as my friend not just an aunt of mine.She asked me how is my lovelife?if i am seeing or dating someone,even to sexual topic we talked about it now.It made me feel so happy and comfortable telling her about my daily activities here,my frustrations is life and everything. Out of nowhere in our conversation she asked me if i have any plan of settling down,i was shocked and got no answer at all..i mumbled something that makes her asked"what did you say?"Then i told her i am not yet ready,and again she emphasized when will i be ready...and that question linger in my mind until this very moment. Me too,i wonder...when will I be ready?How do I know anyway that I am ready?